WHAT YOU DIDN’T KNOW ABOUT SARAHAH APP

Many of you have heard about sarahah app. Have you signed up already? This thing is all over. This is one of the apps used to send messages such as WhatsApp, but with sarahah, you can’t know the sender and you can’t even reply. You can also message to any user and they won’t even know it’s you. Everything is anonymous and the App encourages you to give constructive criticism.

Sarahah has been a background for people to hide behind a screen and say nasty things to you. Those using the App will agree with me on this. For those struggling with low self-esteem, I would advise you not to use the App. This is like an imaginary person trying to kill you. It’s this one awkward moment that you really need to seek for help but you are a prisoner in your own image. 

I personally don’t like the app. Of course I wish I knew what people thought of me and stuff but I need to be careful with and what I find my worth in. I don't want other people's opinions to be something I put so much pressure in. According to most people using the App, what makes it interesting is, the App was geared at reviewing your crush, bosses or anyone that you feel like spying on.I've just learned that there are people using the platform to answer "embarrassing" questions that normally clients would have trouble asking, but because of the anonymity, they are having their questions answered. I really can't imagine it serving any other purpose better than bullying or compliments. Moreover, what constructive criticism can one offer a ‘friend’? Even in situations of disagreement an app like this would stand in the way of proper one on one communication.

We all know some of the horrible things that transpired on there. Sarahah opens a door to cyberbully. Actually its cyber bulling. Who said that Sarahah App helps one in discovering his/her strengths and areas for improvement by receiving honest feedback from your employees and your friends in a private manner? This is all fake. The App largely contributes to a suicide attempt.

Can one hack sarahah App to see the name of the sender?

Research has confirmed that sarahah App can be hacked and one is able to see sarahah usernames.

It’s only a matter of having a second thought on this App before rushing to use. The App really needs someone that can withstand the cruel and brutal responses from unknown people. It may be fun but if you are using this App, be on the lookout.

Why feminism is a problem in Africa

Most people think feminism is about women on board. While, Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. . Feminism is about having the guts, knowing what you stand for and knowing what you deserve and settling for nothing else. It's about being brave and beautiful at the same time.

 Women used to hide a lot of things in their hearts, back then they had no say but with feminism, they express themselves and they make their rights known. They are now able to resist exploitation and intimidation, sadly not all can stand up for their rights. Feminism needs to infiltrate its course. Feminism empowers women to be able to see that even though it's a man's world, women have a part of it too.

For instance, before feminism women had no voice. When we talk about feminism, we are talking about a certain type of cancer that is eating women from the inside. This is like a global warming. Feminism is the worst thing to happen to women. We are judged when we try to fight for our rights and freedom .People think we are stupid because we are women but let me get this right, a person becomes stupid when she or he is stupid. When I fight for my rights it doesn’t shows that am seeking for sympathy. No, it only shows that I know my rights.

As one of the feminist said, Birds are not shy of brokenness because nest are built of brokenness. Sometimes we are so dramatic such that we are driven by the movies we watch. Maybe we should start thinking the other way round. Ask yourself why movies uses hot guys in the movies. We at times talk negative about our men in our women clubs but it doesn’t mean you are a bad person.

It has reached a time where Women are now freaking out because men are not interested in marriage. We have people that support and criticize feminism for it has exposed true female nature for what it is Feminism has chained women to jobs they were not allowed to do back then and recognized single motherhood. 

As most men say, Feminism isn't about equality due to some of the feminist demands for something which is generally female-oriented or leans in the benefit of being a women. In many case women are considered to be a weak species. People say it’s so bad to show emotions. But women are not only allowed to cry but they are expected to cry. This is so true and feminism is trying to fight to change this.

Gender equality should be emphasized, it's said that women can't hold some positions of office simply because they are women, such lame excuses are to be discouraged. Feminism advocates for equal opportunities without discrimination, in the marketplace, in white collar jobs, in the industries and even in leadership positions. Women should be voted in for parliamentary seats, they should have be in charge of major ministries. Major ones and not those considered "weak." Women. Voices should be heard and given the attention it deserves.

Should Women take their husband’s last name after marriage?

Many people after marriage they are in dilemma to change their last name from their father’s name to their husband’s name. Well ladies can decide on what name they prefer. I personally think that taking a man's last name doesn't mean anything in today’s life compared with back in the days. According to me, I really don’t have a problem with taking a man's last name. We are the some product and it’s not being old school but am actually marking my territory.

Some may choose not to change their last name reasons being they view the act as selling yourself and being a slave in your own image. In other way, you belong to a man instead of yourself. Ok, I understand this is your dignity and you don’t want to give it out to someone else. I think it is definitely up to the woman to decide on taking the name or not.

Having a second thought, why can’t we both change our names? So as a couple if we are joining then we should switch names. I would take my husband’s last name not because he owns me but because we are one. Some stuff are meant to remain traditional. I think that would be beautiful and I plan to do that with my future husband.