As most students look forward to make
campus their home away from home, Campus has offered an environment to young
women practice Lesbianism. Well back to my point, today am talking about Gender
fluid. Gender fluid, is a gender identity best described as a
dynamic mix of boy and girl. Bisexuality is a real orientation and it should be
talked about.
Due to my curiosity of
wanting to clarify things between lesbianism and gender fluid, I went ahead and
met this campus girl by the name Lilian (not her real name) and find out what
it feels to be a gender fluid. Lilian who was able to share her with me is one
among the thousands living with gender fluid disorder. She has slept with both
men and women more than she can remember.
Here is what she had to say
during the interview we had with her;
“I realized am a gender
fluid when I was in high school, I was 14 years old .I what it’s like to be in
the closet for 17 years and no one understands what your body or what you feel
like. Many people always judge us but I’d probably class the behavior as
“dominant and passive” rather than “girly and masculine. When I joined campus
for my first year session, I now had to unlock myself and just be me. I
embraced my gender fluid disorder. I have attracted both men and women and I
have no problem with that. Campus was the best place for me to satisfy my
sexual appeal.
While in campus, I met this
girl who was a lesbian and we blended very well. With her, I got passion,
intimacy and sweetness. And I thought maybe I can get all the things I want
from her. Being honest, I prefer to have sex with women since it allows me to
be in a complete control. As soon as I quash that control, I have to deal with
someone else’s desires. I am more confident in my own image than what people
want, me to be.”
Do you think men will envy
you since your terminal attracts both men and women?
“Not really. After my first sex experience with a man which i
considered as rape it tortured my heart. That is the reason why I decided to
eat both fruits. Anyway fruit salad is much sweeter than eating one fruit. I would like to date men but sometimes they are the
course of us girls go into lesbianism. Innocent
girls often turn into tomboys, because they’re disadvantaged of praises and
attention. Their tomboy habits and social pressure gradually kill their desire
toward men, because they think that they’re not beautiful enough. In other
situations this can be caused by Emotional insecurities.”
