HOW TO SUSTAIN HEALTHY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS

WHY MEN LIKE CHEATING WITH HOUSE-GIRLS

WHY MEN LIKE CHEATING WITH HOUSE-GIRLS.

This is a digital life that everyone wants to get whatever he/she is yearning for.Men today they are looking for ways to run from responsibilities.Well,this works for many. House-girls/house-helps have been now the centre of solutions to mens problems.Its weird how CEO,Professors and all this people with big title can cheat on their wives only because of the house-girl. This are some of the reasons that men end up in this condition disparately

1. House-girls are not too demanding.
As you all know that all house-girls respect their boss and they do anything that they are instructed.Well in a relationship,house-girls are not too demanding as wives.Therefore men tend to like them more because they wont spent alot of money,time and space to them.

2.House girls are easy to manipulate.

Men like when they do things on their on way.Therefore they prefer this innocent girls whom they will take the advantage of so easily unlike their wives who have a voice to put them down.

3.Men like women that take care of them
Most women today they ignore kitchen and think its a place for house-girls. No, men wants wives that can cook for them,prefer breakfast for them,water to shower etc.If you leave your house-girl to do all this for your husband then who is the wife here? Think wise.This is why men starts seeing the wife thing in his innocent girl.

4. House-girls are easy to convince into bed.
Yes,they are just still kids in their growing and they dont understand the world of love so clearly.When they are promised things that they cant afford then certainly they will be convinced and dragged into bed.

5.Most of the house-girls are natural beautiful and respective.
Women hide their beauty in make ups and make their house-girl to wear a uniform.But what they dont see is what their men see.

WHAT MEN EXPECT FROM WOMEN ON THE FIRST DATE

WHAT MEN EXPECT FROM WOMEN ON THE FIRST DATE.

Love and date are very special to every woman.Men always have alot of thought on the woman that he is dating.The first date has a lot of weight on dating couples.There are certain things that ment expect from their lovers on the very first date.

1. Composed.

The women are expected to be relaxed.Collect yourself together and focus on your man.You should not be in a hurry to leave.This is the time that lovers bond and connect effectively.Women tend to allow their mind go outside the venue.Yes,it may not be easy for girls to put their mind on this beautiful day but it does not hurt to do so.You should not woprry on what you are almost going to do at the moment whether its right or wrong.For goodness sake its your big day.Dont try to hide or cover your exposed skin due to shyness because this is your man and he needs to see the beautiful side of you.

   2. Participate.
Men wants their women to be active in their sweet moments.You should not just lay there and do nothing.Dont let your man do everything for you.Use your hands ,voice or anything possible to congratulate your man.Men likes when they are encouraged by your romantic sounds when they are doing a good job.Make your man feel that you are interested in his body.Try everything you can to make your lover feel more loved.

   3.Satisfied.
Enjoy every moment you have with your lover.Every man needs a woman when his life is in a mess,because just like in a game of chess,queen protects the king.

WHEN TRUE LOVE SEEMS MISSING IN YOUR LIFE

WHEN TRUE LOVE SEEMS MISSING IN YOUR LIFE.

Love is best seen as devotion and action,not emotion.Love is not exclusively based on how we feel.Certainly our emotions are involved but its not considered as love.True devotion will also lead to action which is true love.We can only identify true love and know when we have found it,based on our devotion and action.

There is three parts that will help you to determine if what you have in your relationship is true love:

1. Commitment-is the ability to stay connected no matter what.Relationship is like a journey that one decides to walk together with the partner.Therefore it may include happiness and difficulties.The secret of staying connected is by believing the best of each other.
2. Intimacy-brings closeness.Leads to attachment.It is away that bonds people together.If you do not trust and feel safe with your partner then intimacy will degenerate into distrust.
3. Passion-the attraction is overwhelming.Its like an electricity shock.You feel obsessive.

The part you are missing on true love in your life is your own subconscious interpersonal template of what loveis supposed to look and feel like.

If you have a history of bad relationships,probably you need to check the inner you closely.

How to get over your Ex

This is something that is very hard to some of us but we need to move on with life no matter what.Love life my seem so hard to maintain but we need it to some extend.When true love seems missing in your life you should not worry .Make a move to bring joy to your life by any means.This video teaches us on how to deal with our ex boyfriends,husbands,lovers,girlfriends.etc

HOW TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU

HOW TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU.

1.They use secret apps and have their mobile phones always at hand.
2.You have not met many of his friends though you hang out alot with him.No introduction to his family.

3.If shes nagging you more than usual.
This may not be because she is cheating on you but it can as well be the reason because she no longer finds you so alluring.She could also be therefore us nagging to justify that.
4.If she's not as open.
Because unlike men,women cheat emotionally before they take it to the physical expert.Women are more open about their feelings than men,so if she's quiet she might be emotionally cheating on you with someone else.

5.If your relationship routine has changed.
Most men find it difficult to multi task therefore they will draw away your love and direct it to someone else.

5 REASONS WHY PEOPLE CHEAT IN RELATIONSHIPS

5 REASONS WHY PEOPLE CHEAT IN RELATIONSHIPS.

1.Lack of sexual satisfaction in your relationship.
Most people like to feel each other .The intimacy is the way of bonding with your partner.In many relationships ,men tend to be less satisfied .This leads them to draw away attention from their partners.
2.Desire for additional sexual encounters.
Some partners like to be rewarded.They therefore decide to have numerous partners so as to examine themselves on how good they are .The more reward they get the less they cheat on their partners.

3.Want to seek revenge.

When one finds out that he or she has been played on,they go ahead to cheat on their partners in the name of revenging .This is the main reason that most people cheat on their partners.
4.Falling out of love with your partner.
Some behaviours can lead to falling out of love,such behaviours are dishonest,lack of trust and paying less attention to your partner.
5.Want  new experiences.
Just as meals,people want  to change diet .It is noted that most  people want to have varies variety of partners.They call them backup plan.

THE INNER COMPASS

Do you know that Kenya has been ranged as the third corrupt country in the world? Anyway that’s the life that we are living today. Let’s try and understand what we are and who we are. People today hide their hearts and speak only with words. When life do starts? Actually life was in existence even before you were created. Your lifestyle is your domine.As you live, you must meet people who are better than you, and you must also experience failure.

That’s not my main issue here right know. What am trying to say is that everyone is a leader. Let’s save Kenya. Kenya is broken. Africa is broken. It’s you and I that will save our country. Let’s take chance to see the inner compass, the inner us. See things that are invisible to our outer world.

It’s a great step that we are talking. Let’s meet on 12/3/2016 at CITAM KAREN and discuss on how to save Kenya. Entry fee is Ksh100 only. This will make use understand on how to be innovative leaders. The agenda is mainly: the inner compass. Seeing things in different dimension. Speakers available are Pepe Minambos and many others. All are welcomed. Together we save Kenya.

HOW TO SPICE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

FIVE WAYS TO SPICE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. BREAK RULES.

Human being get bored following routines. That’s why most people love surprises and adventures. If in your relationship your partner is always the one to take the first move then you should break that rule. Take initiative.

2. EXPRESS YOURSELF.

This is the only way to know each other. It makes one understand how their partners feels, and more important, what they think the other one wants.

3. CONNECT EACH DAY.

Protect that time from intrusion. You should at least have a mature talk every day. The connection is very vital and it helps to study your partners’ don’ts and dos.

4. CREATE A LITTLE TENSION.

It gets your energy up and helps you be creative. Try to recognize the attention of your partner.

5. MAKE A DATE.

Organize specific time that you meet with your partner and share your opinions and life events

politics is down

POLITICS IS DOWN

Very few people are satisfied with politics nowadays. Polarization seems to have put Congress in a constant state of gridlock while inequality reaches unprecedented levels. The cycle of wealth and influence also appears to be self-reinforcing as the wealthy are able to influence the government to help protect their advantage. 

Just few days ago Cooperative University was carrying out a campaign for their students leaders. Following very closely ,what always happen in our real life, the students tried to use the poor technics for campaigning just like our leaders. Due to this uncivilized way of campaigning some of students had to die. This is so sad.

Actually the main thing that am trying to say is that Kenya still need to wake up and mature .The life we live today it may lynch us in future if we don’t act now. We are still fighting mere issues such as corruption, poverty, etc. But I believe Kenya we can make it .The beautiful country that we are, we will recollect ourselves and rebuild our country. This is Kenya that arises with enough to save its people.