WHY GENDERFLUID???

WHY GENDER FLUID???

As most students look forward to make campus their home away from home, Campus has offered an environment to young women practice Lesbianism. Well back to my point, today am talking about Gender fluid. Gender fluid, is a gender identity best described as a dynamic mix of boy and girl. Bisexuality is a real orientation and it should be talked about.

Due to my curiosity of wanting to clarify things between lesbianism and gender fluid, I went ahead and met this campus girl by the name Lilian (not her real name) and find out what it feels to be a gender fluid. Lilian who was able to share her with me is one among the thousands living with gender fluid disorder. She has slept with both men and women more than she can remember.

Here is what she had to say during the interview we had with her;

“I realized am a gender fluid when I was in high school, I was 14 years old .I what it’s like to be in the closet for 17 years and no one understands what your body or what you feel like. Many people always judge us but I’d probably class the behavior as “dominant and passive” rather than “girly and masculine. When I joined campus for my first year session, I now had to unlock myself and just be me. I embraced my gender fluid disorder. I have attracted both men and women and I have no problem with that. Campus was the best place for me to satisfy my sexual appeal.

While in campus, I met this girl who was a lesbian and we blended very well. With her, I got passion, intimacy and sweetness. And I thought maybe I can get all the things I want from her. Being honest, I prefer to have sex with women since it allows me to be in a complete control. As soon as I quash that control, I have to deal with someone else’s desires. I am more confident in my own image than what people want, me to be.”

Do you think men will envy you since your terminal attracts both men and women?

“Not really. After my first sex experience with a man which i considered as rape it tortured my heart. That is the reason why I decided to eat both fruits. Anyway fruit salad is much sweeter than eating one fruit. I would like to date men but sometimes they are the course of us girls go into lesbianism. Innocent girls often turn into tomboys, because they’re disadvantaged of praises and attention. Their tomboy habits and social pressure gradually kill their desire toward men, because they think that they’re not beautiful enough. In other situations this can be caused by Emotional insecurities.”